Archive for April, 2007

Got it

April 30, 2007

Next time i must not anyhow type things on my blog le. Whatever i typed yesterday, it seems to be happening to me. Everything seems rotten for me today. I was like having the bad luck aura all around me. Everyone around me got affected by it. Yet, i must look pass all these. Look pass all the bad stuffs and trust Him. At the end of the day, the sweet result came. I got into the minor program. Will be leaving for OBS this weekend. In such a short notice. Woohoo. Wai man also got into the course. So there she is joining me in this minor program. Hope we can be in the same team together at least i will have one friend. Haha. Thank You, Father.

Out of focus

April 29, 2007

For the past few months, i was really out of focus in my life even until now. I guess when my focus is not on God, everything else in my life will be out of focus too. I am prepared for the worst for this sem that i will do badly for my studies. Because no matter what i do, my heart could never get down and study seriously. But so be it, i have to have the courage to face the music. For the past few months, i was terribly angry with God. I mean this is what the normal people will do. It is just so convenient to blame everything on God for what happened in my life. This anger of mine just turned to everyone else around me. It also helped me saw things that i have never viewed in that light before. This i would call a real relationship. In a relationship, there will of course be some tiffs and quarrels, as much as God is perfect, i am not. There will be times i could not accept what is in my life, why it have to be this or that way. Why not the way i wanted in to be. I question, i doubt and all that is because i do not have perfect knowledge about anything. Still, i will learn from this and i must learn from this. Teach me again, Father, how to put You back in the center of my life. Let it not be to the right nor left but at the most high place in the center of my life. Let my eyes be fixed on You once more, Lord. Do not let them blink for a single moment. Open up my heart with the truth of Your words, oh Holy Spirit. Let it be saturated with the light and truth.

Deep down

April 27, 2007

Just as i was walking my dog down at the park. I heard people having CG and could clearly listening to what they were singing. I am not the only one, i believed those people around the area could also heard it. As i drew nearer to the singing, something inside me stirred up. The once familiar feeling came back to me, i knew at that time my spirit was also joining in their worship. The presence of God which i have almost forgotten came back to me. What is free worship? To me free worship is when one is in the presence of God, no worries, no troubles and the person is freely worship God in the spirit. The human body can or maybe imprisoned, yet the spirit is free. Just relating to God one on one. Some may take drugs just to achieve this ‘high’ feeling whereby they can forget everything and just concentrate on that moment. Yet i tell you this that being in the presence of God is 1000 or trillions times better than all those stupid drugs. Here i am, Lord. Hold my hand as i walk with You once again.

Well done

April 27, 2007

Yup, i went for my interview just now. Did not use the speech which i have thought of last night using 10mins in the bathroom. Haha. I came up with another one which was last flowerly. I think my presentation today was quite good. I would give myself 8 out of 10 for my performance during the interview. If not for the 2 or 3 repeated sentences, it will be a 9 instead. Oh well, i am quite confident of getting into the program. Still, it is still unknown and if i never get it then too bad. Still a bit confused now cos i will not be able to work when i am accepted into the program if i do get it. Leaving it all up to You. Your way and not mine.

Bio Zombies

April 26, 2007

After watching so many versions of movie on bio zombies, i believe all can come to an agreement that they are all mindless creatures. What is the point that i am trying to drive across here. I was thinking that maybe somehow people knew that once a persondied, there is no way to bring the person back to life unless God agrees to do so. In religion terms, there is this thing called ‘soul’ in everyone of us which some scientists may not believe in. Therefore, once a person died, the soul will leave the body. Maybe really maybe we could trigger off some kind of chemical reaction to let the body functions once more. Nevertheless, they may all be like those bio zombies who are without soul, lacking the ability to feel and think, driven only by their urges and desires. Why those people out there who do not believe in Jesus, stop trying to prove that Christianity is false. Instead, spend all their efforts in trying to resurrectdead people. If they do succeed to bring people back from their death 100%, then it do shows that all religions are fake right? Of course there will be a new problem that will arise from this new technology. That is overpopulation on earth. Think of a scenario whereby there is only births, no death.

Interview Speech

April 26, 2007

This will be my speech for the interview tomorrow. If i do not get through with this speech, then the rest of them must be super ‘zhai’.

I believe almost everyone has a dream of their own. And mine is to start a business which is similar to many people. I believe those of you sitting here also share the same dreamwith me. To others, i maybe trying to reach a dream that seems unobtainable. If my dream is like building a castle in the air, then the program offer by NTC will be the tools to help me lay the foundations for my castle. Chinese used to have a saying that in order to achieve something, there must be 3 elements which are 天时,地利,人和。I am sure that NTC will provide me with the 地利 and 人和, while waiting for the right opportunity to come along. Of course, i hope to give something back to the school after i have graduated from it and from whatever experience that i may have. Maybe to setup more networking sessions for the rest of the people. That will put an ending note to my speech. Thanks for your time.

Chinese Joke Part 3

April 26, 2007

老婆和老媽同時掉在了水裡了…[有答案喇=]

這種問題終於有解答了…

看看古人是怎麼做的…

老婆和老媽同時掉在了水裡,先救老婆老媽就會沒命,先救老媽老婆就會沒命。先救老婆還是先救老媽還是誰都不救呢?

想知?! 回左先睇得 XDDDDDDDD

孟子:

從小死了老爸,老媽拉扯我不容易,為了讓我健康成長,又搬了三次的家,給我吃好的穿好的為得就是讓我有出息。

老媽和老婆落水當然先救老媽了,萬惡淫為首,百善孝為先嘛!老婆死了我可以再找一個,老媽死了可不能再找一個,再找一個那就是後媽了。聽說後媽沒幾個好的。

——————「世上只有媽媽好,沒媽的孩子像根草。老媽,我來救你了」。撲通一聲孟子跳下了水

周幽王:

老婆和老媽落水了當然得先救老婆了。想當年俺為了逗親愛的褒姒笑一笑,連江山都不要了,連自己的小命都不要了,何況是老媽?

再說這死老太婆在立太子的時侯老是偏向俺弟弟,害得俺差點都沒當成太子。

————「情深深雨蒙蒙,我對你的愛很深,褒姒我來救你了。」周幽王撲通一聲跳進了水裡。

劉備:

兄弟如手足,老婆如衣服,衣服破尚可補,手足斷安可續?只要俺二弟和三弟沒掉水里就行了,其它人俺可不管他。

—————「老婆,老媽。你們死的好慘呀!」劉備一頭栽在河邊上嚎嚎大哭起來。

曹操:

寧叫我負天下人,休叫天下人負我。管它是老婆還是老媽了,只要不是我掉水裡就行了。

—————「輕輕的我走了,正如我輕輕的來,我揮一揮手,不帶走一片云彩。」
曹操哼著詩提著劍慢慢的走遠了。

屈原:

這個世界太黑暗了,這個國家太腐敗了,活著也沒啥意思,不如都死了乾凈,滄浪之水清兮,可以濯吾纓,滄浪之水濁兮,可以濯吾足。

投身于河水中倒是一個挺好的歸宿。

———「現在的一片天,是骯髒的一片天,星星在文明的天空里再也看不見老婆,老媽,我和你們一起死」屈原一邊唱著一邊跳進了水裡。

莊子:

生又何歡,死又何哀?其始而本無生;非徒無生也,而本無形;非徒無形也。

老媽和老婆死了就死好了,不過是從有形的元氣狀態回到了無形的元氣狀態,有啥好傷心的呢?救他們干啥呢?誰都不救啦!

—————「對面的女孩看過來,看過來,看過來。」莊子分開著雙腿像簸箕一樣坐著,手中拿著一個瓦缶,邊敲邊唱,看著老婆和老媽慢慢地淹沒在水中,滿臉快快樂樂的樣子。

和砷:

老婆和老媽落水就落水吧,反正我愛的是錢,錢就是我的老婆,錢就是我的親媽。

我說老婆和老媽呀,你們就不能穿差一點的衣服再掉到河裡呀,可惜了你們頭上的那些金釵手飾呀!

———–「有啥你別有病,沒啥你別沒錢。」和呻一邊看著他老婆和老媽慢慢地沉下去一邊嘆息著。

王勃:

手心手背都是肉,老婆是自己最愛的人,老媽是自己最親的人,怎么辦呢?不管它,先跳下去,看看離誰最近就先救誰吧。

王勃撲通一聲跳了下去。

———「不好,我忘了自己不會游泳了。」王勃咕嚕嚕地喝了幾口水,也慢慢地沉了下去。一代才子王勃就是因為此事溺水而死的。

孫悟空:

俺是從石頭縫裡蹦出來的,沒有老媽。所以不存在老媽落水的問題;俺是個和尚,沒有老婆。所以不存在老婆落水的問題。

不存在老媽落水的問題,也不存在老婆落水的問題,就更不會存在老媽和老婆同時落水的問題。

白癡的問題也不知道是哪個豬頭想出來的,簡直比俺師弟豬八戒還蠢。<–這才是真正的答案啊

Chinese Joke Part 2

April 25, 2007

當公主與王子結婚之後,
他們從此就幸福的生活在一起?
如果你看到發福的灰姑娘,
相信就不會這麼認為了……
據說灰姑娘成為王子美麗的新娘後,
真是快樂得不得了。
以前每天要挑水、撿柴、燒飯、洗衣
還常常有一餐沒一餐的。
現在光是伺候她的宮女就有好幾打,
而各地進貢的美食和宮廷裡三不五時的聚餐、國宴,
更是讓她吃得好不痛快!
每天除了御廚精製的三餐滿漢全席外,
還有下午茶和消夜,而她最愛的蛋糕、巧克力
更是取之不盡、吃之不竭。
算算灰姑娘嫁入宮中也不過兩年,
王子對她的態度卻越來越冷淡,
常可看見他望著宮外的美少女長吁短嘆。
灰姑娘百思不得其解,
直到有日她心血來潮拿出玻璃鞋穿,
不料「鏘」一聲!
鞋子竟應聲而碎,
灰姑娘趕緊把仙母找來,
仙母見到她不禁搖頭:
「唉,我忘了提醒妳
 『玻璃鞋不得載重超過一百公斤』。
 不過妳也胖得太厲害了!」
原本灰姑娘對她發福的事實還不以為意,
後來她實在受不了王子打算要她兩個姊姊做小老婆,
終於決定減肥,於是來到某家著名的瘦身中心。
繳完報名費,服務小姐便指示她進去一個三溫暖烤箱。
灰姑娘進到裡面,
發現已有兩個比自己還臃腫的歐巴桑在那兒,
便自我介紹:「妳們好,我是灰姑娘。二位是?」

「我叫白雪公主..」
「我叫睡公主….」

Chinese Joke Part 1

April 25, 2007

 話說有一次諸葛亮,劉備,孫權,曹操四人同乘飛機,突然遇到緊急情況,
需要跳傘逃生。

這時候才發現機上只剩下三個降落傘。大家一陣緊張,這時只見諸葛亮搖搖
羽毛扇清清嗓子,說「這樣吧,山人出幾道題,能答上來的,就跳傘,答不
上來的只好自己跳下去了」。
其他人沒辦法只好同意。

諸葛亮再搖了搖羽毛扇問劉備「天上有幾個太陽?」
劉備一想簡單,回答「一個」
於是拿了個降落傘下去了。
諸葛亮再問孫權「天上有幾個月亮」
孫權回答「一個」
也拿了個降落傘下去了。
最後輪到曹操,諸葛亮問「天上有幾個星星」
曹操一楞,回答不上來只好自己跳下去了。

沒想到竟然跳在了海裡 撿回一條命。

第二次又四個人坐飛機遇到緊急情況,四人一商量,還是用老辦法吧。
諸葛亮又搖起羽毛扇問劉備「當年周武王戰敗紂王的那場戰役是?」
劉備一想簡單,回答「牧野之戰」
諸葛亮點點頭,於是劉備拿了個傘包下去了。
諸葛亮再問孫權「那場戰役死了多少人」
孫權想了想說「大概有三四萬」
諸葛點點頭,孫權拿了個傘包也下去了,
曹操不禁偷笑想「諸葛亮呀諸葛亮呀,本人可是貫古通今,尤其是軍事,
這次你可是栽了, 呵呵」
只見諸葛亮問「他們都叫什麼名字」
曹操一聽差點沒暈過去,只好自己跳下去了

沒想到竟然又跳在了海裡 撿回一條命。
曹操暗自竊笑「媽的,老子命大!看你諸葛老頭能把我怎麼?」

第三次同樣四個人坐飛機,飛機又遇到緊急情況,曹操一想,諸葛老
頭又要 整我,乾脆我自己跳下去算了,免受侮辱。於是一橫心,跳
了下去, 在空中高速下降中。只聽得上面諸葛亮的笑聲傳來
「曹操啊曹操,枉你聰明一世,哈哈,今天飛機上有四個降落傘!」
曹操「啊﹏﹏」的一聲暈了過去。

True?

April 25, 2007

六号特性:忠诚者

基本恐惧:得不到支援及引导,单凭一已的能力没法生存

基本欲望:得到支援及安全感

内在声音:如果我能够达到他人对我的期望,我就 OKAY 了。

特质:认同及服从权威,有责任感;面对异已者时,容易陷入强忍 / 攻击的矛盾中,因而变得优柔寡断,及过分谨慎。

顺境 ( 得到支持时 ) :自我肯定;信赖别人和自己;容易与人有亲密的关系,对待家人,朋友及所属的团体有持久的忠诚及承诺。

逆境 ( 没有支持时 ) 缺乏安全感,极度焦虑;自我贬抑,有被虐的倾向

处理感情的方法;恐惧被遗弃,无人支援, 对人太过依赖;对人有承诺感,值得信赖,同时保持独立,而防卫性颇强。

六号有两: P6 惶恐 6 ; CP6 先发制人 6

身体语言: ( P6) 肌肉拉紧,双肩向前弯;面部表情;慌张,避免眼神接触讲话方式 / 语调;声线微带颤抖,游花园,久久不入正题。

(CP6) 肌肉拉紧,刻意挺起胸膛;面部表情;瞪起眼睛盯着人;讲话方式 / 语调;故意粗声粗气,兜兜转转,不入正题。

常用词汇:慢着;等等;让我想一想;不知道;唔 …… ;或者可以的;怎么办

工作环境;

(P6) : 选择做打工仔,需要规条及操作标准,容许自由发展,有时间追求自己的兴趣及嗜好。

(CP6) :希望能够掌有实权,愿意跟从规条及操作标准,容许自由发展。

不能处理逆境时出现的特征:妄想狂性格;

恐惧犯错、未知、敌意、欺诈、不能生存、孤独、被出卖、去爱、应付不来、放手;缺乏安全感;迟疑;无决断力;妥协;过度谨慎;懦弱。

六号的警钟:找寻外在的指引及支持;对将来充满焦虑;找寻安全感;婚姻、工作、信仰、朋友网络、未雨绸缪、投资将来、建立安全网;谨慎前进、降低期望;死人寻旧路。

座右铭:伴君如伴虎

典型冲突点:过多焦虑不断发问,令人(尤其三及七号)生厌

优点:对盟友忠心耿耿,不遗余力保护自己人

缺点:对人抱着质疑的态度

最适合工作环境:有清楚的权力架构,大家忠于找出真相

不适合的工作环境:工作指引含糊

管理方式:以解问题及克服障碍为中心思想

令人舒服地方:是逆境中可信赖的盟友

令人不安地方:顺境时显得过分谨慎

沟通要点:六号采取行动前需要得到大量及清晰的指引,并知道前路的危机何在;支持六号见步行步,望得太远产生不必要的焦虑感 ;六号感觉环境不清晰时会有焦虑,不时与他倾谈;不要一意孤行转变游戏规则,给予六号足够的时间去适应。

激发要点:以身作则\真诚\一贯的动作;称赞及动用六号的分析能力;主动指出可能发生的问题,去赢取六号对你的信任;被六号质问时,保持友善的态度,帮助他找到答案;鼓励六号对你的忠心及承诺。

时间管理:轨道式时间;解救方案; 六号在开始行动前及完成计划前会拖延,帮助他克服内心的困扰;支持六号将内心的问题讲出来要求六号与你一起订立程序,工作不会因为规则 不清晰而停顿下来;六号在没有压力时会拖慢 脚步,帮助他将焦点放在最终目标;提醒六号作息有时。

达成协议:六号对人性充满疑惑,会视协议为被占便宜,所以必须首先赢取他的信任及尊重

常见问题:推缷责任,框框人

解救方法:清楚的职权分配;建议另类处事方式

Which one are you?

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